To Manifest Your Dream Life, Make This Major Shift
Manifesting your dream life requires some 𝘂𝗻𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 & 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 . Because we learn to live our lives, from a young age, from the 𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 in - instead of the inside out! We learn to look at what’s going on in our lives and let that lead us, and in doing so, we dim the power inside us.
Manifesting your dream life requires some 𝘂𝗻𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 & 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 ..
Because we learn to live our lives, from a young age, from the 𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 in - instead of the inside out! We learn to look at what’s going on in our lives and let that lead us, and in doing so, we dim the power inside us.
The creative power! Because every single thing that exists in our lives, was a thought first. So anything more you desire to manifest will also be a thought in your mind first. An intuitive download or nudge!
In the last year, I rewired my brain to act this way instead; to listen to that voice of my intuition and make my choices from the inside out! Because if you’re outside world isn’t matching what you desire, why would you let 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 decide on your next steps?! It’s your inside world that starts the change, so trust it. Trust that your inside world is showing you your next step.
But too may times, people receive that guidance, but delay taking action, waiting for the outside world to catch up. Actually the inner world is leading & your action is the one thing that forces the outside world to catch up.
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What Is Wounded Feminine Energy?
Wounded feminine energy can almost feel like the norm in today’s society! As many of our societal structures were built around masculine energetic traits, many of us have strayed from our natural energy, to try and fit into today’s way of working. The result? Well it can look a little like this…
If you’re here, maybe you’ve recently heard the words ‘divine’ and ‘wounded’ feminine energy thrown around. If you’re anything like I was, you probably had no idea these sub segments even existed!
But that’s partly because wounded feminine energy can almost feel like the norm in today’s society! As many of our societal structures were built around masculine energetic traits, many of us have strayed from our natural energy, which would be the ‘divine’ feminine energy, in order to try and fit into today’s way of working. The result? Well it can look a little like this…
Shame
Do ever feel shame or embarrassment around being sexual? Do you feel like it’s something you should hide? What about being emotional? Have you come to see that as weakness? The wounded feminine holds a lot of shame inside, not able to be fully at ease with all parts of herself.
2. Insecurity
The wounded feminine finds it hard to trust, she struggles with her self image and feelings of unworthiness. As a result, she may try to win love by people pleasing. (Been there, am I right?!)
3. Hustle & Burnout Cycles
Do you ever find yourself getting stuck in the hustle trap? If working feels more like grinding than flowing, this can be a tell tale sign. Weak work/life boundaries can also be a symptom! And as a result of this, you can often end up burnt-out or inconsistent.
4. Wounded Masculine
One of the most powerful revelations that will aid you in doing this work, is that life is always acting as our mirror! So if you find yourself attracting wounded masculine energy, this could be hinting at your own healing that needs to be done. Wounded masculine energy looks like being controlling, aggressive, guarded or flighty. It also tends to be emotionally repressive. How can I make this easier to spot for the average millenial woman? Think ghosting, gaslighting and unfaithfulness!
5. Disconnected
Do you feel disconnected from, or mistrusting of, your intuition? Do you feel unsupported, alone even, like you don't have a strong connection with anything bigger? Some choose to call this force the 'divine', God or the universe. Wounded feminine energy often causes us to shun, or just lose touch with, our connection with the divine, and the spiritual. This connection is known to be one of our greatest natural gifts!
6. External Validation
Do you find yourself seeking external validation, causing you to go after the wrong relationships and opportunities? Maybe even follow a path that doesn't fulfill you? Stuck in the cycle of trying to get approval from others, instead of trying to make yourself happy! It can also manifest as people pleasing, to put it simply, betraying your own needs in effort to be validated.
Do you relate to any of these? Do you feel like i’m looking straight into your soul? It’s because I’ve been there girl!
Carrying wounded energy is nothing to be ashamed of. It’s rarely your fault, but is just a result of your past experiences and learned behaviour. However, your healing is your responsibility. Only you can do that!
The divine feminine is; intuitive, magnetic, healing, sensual, radiant and confident
But, like many others, I was living in my wounded feminine energy for most of my life, completely unconsciously! So what led to me to this topic, and ultimately to my healing? Well, in all honestly, it took life slapping me in the face, repeatedly, trying to wake me up to the healing I needed to do, before I paid attention.
I didn’t get the subtle hints, so life brought me multiple instances of the same patterns! I attracted multiple relationships into my life with people majorly struggling with wounded masculine energy, and projecting the worst parts of that out onto me…
But we are a mirror! So until I healed, I would continue to attract wounded energy
All of this stuff; shame, insecurity, disconnection, burnout …It projected out onto my business too - but fortunately, so did my healing!
Doing this deep work helped me to attract ease & flow in my business and the divine masculine into my relationship!
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How To Quantum Leap In Your Biz
Because this is how I went from barely surviving & losing my hair, to doubling my income, winning an award & getting featured in a national magazine! We’re talking ‘crazy’, ‘illogical’ transformation. When you think of trying to quantum leap in your business, you probably think of trying to move things in the outside world right? Try all the different strategies, until you find the magic piece?
Because this is how I went from barely surviving & losing my hair, to doubling my income, winning an award & getting featured in a national magazine! We’re talking ‘crazy’, ‘illogical’ transformation.
When you think of trying to quantum leap in your business, you probably think of trying to move things in the outside world right? Try all the different strategies, until you find the magic piece?
That's what I was trying to do in 2018, when I was barely making enough money to pay my bills. When I had to chase clients before I could buy food, and when I started losing my hair from the stress.
But the thing is; your business is a reflection of your inner world
The money you make is a reflection of you. The clients you serve are a reflection of you. You are the control centre.
So then, trying to change everything on the outside world, is like having mascara tears running down your face, and trying to wipe them off by wiping your reflection in the mirror! Am I right?
When I was struggling so deeply in 2018, I couldn't imagine people paying me my 1-1 training prices. Just couldn't see it. I literally expected them to say, 'I can't afford it', without knowing anything about them. So they did! And on the occasion where they would shock the sh*t out of me and say yes...
Sure enough a few days later, they would back out! Why? Because I would always attract people and circumstances that mirrored my beliefs!
So what changed then? I shifted my paradigm, and I aligned my strategy until I could really get behind it. Until I could only see it being successful!
And I used my intuition every step of the way, to show me the how. It guided me to come up with my signature offer, ‘Lift & Grow Girl’, which helped me serve more people at less cost to them, yet make more money! And the rest is history 😛
So if you are ready for your quantum leap, these are your three keys .
This is why I created the 𝙎𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙀𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙪𝙧’𝙨 𝘼𝙘𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙢𝙮 ! t’s alll the inner work & aligned strategy you need to go from surviving to 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴. Curious? Join the waitlist here.
Why Can You Manifest Some Things, But Not Others?
Why can you manifest 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦 things, but not others? Like, you can easily manifest a free gift, a coffee or a new friendship…but certain things, like maybe money, just doesn't seem to work for you!?
Why can you manifest 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦 things, but not others? 👀
Like, you can easily manifest a free gift, a coffee or a new friendship…but certain things, like money perhaps, just doesn't seem to work for you!?
I used to take this to mean one of two things, (dependent on my mood)
1) proof that manifestation doesn’t work and is a load of ‘boohockey’
2) proof that I’m a failure of a manifester & that it just can’t work for me
Actually neither are true, (Thank F*ck!)
Some things are harder to manifest than others ... but it has nothing to do with the thing itself and everything to do with you.
Manifestation occurs naturally where there is no resistance! So if you’re struggling to manifest something in particular, but have had success with other areas…you probably have 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧 beliefs, stories or learned experiences about why that thing will be difficult, if not impossible, for you to receive!
Mind-blowing stuff right?! That’s why manifestation is so much more than sitting in your fave chair and visualising your goal! It’s about rewriting your paradigm to align with what you want!
When you heal those beliefs & narratives that are standing in your way... you can manifest that thing easily! That is the real work.
I show you exactly how, in my course, ‘Manifest’. Click here for more info!
3 Manifestation Myths Blocking You From Your Desires
There are so many myths out there about manifestation & buying into those may be keeping you from what you want! I don't say this to trigger you, but to show you what's really possible for you. You may believe some things about manifestation that are just downright false. & it could be hurting your progress...🤯
There are so many myths out there about manifestation & buying into those may be keeping you from what you want! I don't say this to trigger you, but to show you what's really possible for you.
You may believe some things about manifestation that are just downright false. & it could be hurting your progress...🤯
Here are 3 myths that you may believe about manifestation that are just NOT TRUE:
Big things are harder to manifest than small things
Not actually true! It has nothing to do with the size of the thing, but everything to do with your relationship towards it. If you think that thing is out of reach, if you have more limiting beliefs around that thing, and if you have more wounds relating to it - it will be harder! This is why module 2 of my 3 step co-creation method ; 'healing & releasing', is so key! Rewrite your paradigm, manifest your wildest desires!
You manifest what you want
'Fraid not! You don't manifest what you want, you manifest what you are. So manifestation is about becoming. Becoming the version of yourself who has what you want. And where does that come from? Inside first! Yep, your paradigmManifesting is about visualising and focusing on the goal
Not wholly true. You see visualising and focusing on the goal can help, but if you don't believe it can be yours - you can visualise all day, everyday & still find that your desire evades you. Visualising is the glamorised cherry on top, to the real process.
I’m tired of hearing these myths and I want to show you that it's time to leave them behind & receive your wildest desires!
⚡️Manifestation is an inside job, and the process is so beautiful because it takes you to your highest self!⚡️
My Signature course ‘Manifestation Mindset’ destroys these myths and show you just how to be a magnet for your desires. Want to learn the 3 step method to receiving your desires? Click here.